Regardless of the connection you feel with any of your matches, we encourage you to do your own research before meeting in person.
If you find anything that doesn't seem to add up, follow your intuition and stop communicating with that person.We understand that a match may share a URL link to a favorite website or article as part of the get-to-know-you communication process.When it comes to your personal safety, you are in ultimate control.We rely on the honesty of our members when filling out our e Harmony Relationship Questionnaire to supply us with their correct date of birth, marital status, city and state of residence, occupation, educational background and other information.Assessing a match's truthfulness and honesty is ultimately your responsibility.
Don't ignore any facts that seem inconsistent or "off." Trust your instincts and remember that you have control over the situation.
Many crimes often go unreported and perpetrators are not always convicted.
Relying solely on screening can provide a false sense of security, so we strongly recommend that you follow the rest of the Safety Tips regardless of any screenings that we may perform.
Also, be aware of these common red flags when you’re getting to know someone new.
Watch out for someone who: If a match does any of the above activities or makes you suspicious in any other way, please report this as a Match Concern by emailing [email protected] that we can investigate the matter.
There is no substitution for acting with caution when communicating with someone you are just getting to know.