Realize that how someone looks does not dictate how valuable they are.
Back when I was shy, I remember I kept having to think I had to “hide” the fact I had never had a girlfriend.I thought that if the girl realized from the way I acted that I was romantically or sexually inexperienced, then that meant she would just get up and leave automatically.Do not put the girl on a pedestal before you even know her. That’s why so many women give guys the advice to “be yourself.” They don’t like it when a guy is trying hard to impress them and get them to like him.Especially when they haven’t done anything to deserve his attention yet except looking pretty.What about the guy who’s smart enough to know that nothing really bad can happen, but he still feels that overwhelming anxiety that stops him every time?
Eventually I realized most of the people typing this stuff up had never been shy around girls themselves, they had just thrown up a webpage to make some quick money.
The truth is, by having an attitude of feeling undeserving of more experienced girls, then you are only sabotaging yourself.
If you have grown up somewhat shy and socially awkward, then it will be almost inevitable that most girls will be more experienced than you.
Would you think that a lottery winner was superior to you?
Another way of feeling inferior is thinking that being less experienced than the girl with relationships will immediately make you repulsive to her.
Bookmark this page now so you can come back to it again and again. From my experience teaching hundreds of shy people over the past couple of years, both guys and girls, I’ve found the cause of most shyness is a feeling of inferiority. Meanwhile around a girl you find attractive your mind suddenly goes blank and you can’t think of what to say. The solution is, of course, to stop placing so much value on looks.