Geographically close couples do this almost unconsciously as they chat about little events that are upcoming or recently past.These little events seem relevant when discussed right away, but they lose their interest and excitement when discussed in retrospect.Couples that see one another only once a week or once a month often can feel disconnected from their partner.
Back to top, click here A common worry among couples in long distance relationships is that their partner (or they themselves) will have an affair while they’re separated.Common sense suggests that because partners can’t keep an eye on one another they might be more prone to wander.Researchers have examined whether couples in long distance relationships have more affairs than geographically close couples. The good news is that all three studies showed that couples in long distance relationships had no greater risk of having an affair than geographically close couples.It seems that the risk of having an affair is related more to the quality of the relationship between the couple, and the personalities involved, than on mere opportunity.So not only are there more long-distance sparks flying these days but people are far more likely to fan the flames of these romances rather than assume they would never work.
Back to top, click here Despite what many people believe, LDRs do not break up at any greater rate than more traditional, geographically close, couples.
Overall, there are just over 7 million couples (14-15 million individuals) in the US who consider themselves in a long distance relationship.
Back to top, click here Compared to 2000 there are 839,000 more long-distance marriages in 2005.
Newlyweds have an even greater chance of being long-distance early in their marriage with one study of 600 couples showing 1 in 10 were long-distance during some portion of their first 3 years.
Pre-marital couples are harder to study though research shows an estimated 4.4 million college students (20-40% of all students in some studies) are in LDRs.
All of these things make it more likely that they’ll fall for someone who doesn’t live nearby,” says Dr. The rise of Internet dating services predictably contributes to “coast-to-coast couples” – those who live on opposite ends of the nation and met on the web, but have a real, not just a virtual, relationship.