When they finally rushed into a restaurant down the street, the drizzle had turned into a downpour.
They walked into the restaurant and his date took off his overcoat to reveal a clean dress, whereas, he on the other hand, was sodden and wet.
Courtesy should be extended every month of the year and with every date you encounter.It's actually kind of sad that we have to dedicate a whole month to an act every single should already be doing as professionals. Gone are the days when the original knights in shining armor would request an opportunity to court a woman by way of a messenger.How to be chivalrous Many centuries ago, when the kings ruled, knights of valor and honor tread the earth. Knights used to take off their cloak and drop it over a puddle so their lady wouldn’t dirty her feet.They used to pick up a damsel’s scarf when she dropped it on the ground in a trice. Learning to be chivalrous through experiences The last time I actually helped a pretty girl pick up an entire bag of grocery she had dropped, all she did was give me one smug glance and walk away, like I was her blooming man-servant or something.Of course, she thinks you think that she’s just too weak to open the door herself! Just like how we have a streak of chivalry in us, women too have a streak of I-want-to-be-pampered in them.
So how the hell do you figure out how to be chivalrous and show that you respect a woman? So irrespective of whether she thinks you’re checking her ass or not, be courteous.
She’d just assume that you want to check her ass as she walks ahead!
She’s also the one who gives you a weird stare when you hold the door open for her.
Since the whole concept of chivalry is rather sexist, placing the sole responsibility of chivalry on the man, It's Just Lunch wanted to take a moment to share a few tips on how both men and women can be more chivalrous to one another, especially in light of technology changing the way we date. A woman wants a man who will make an effort and go the extra mile. It's the gentlemanly thing to do to meet a woman some place where she feels safe and comfortable, especially when meeting for the first time or do.
Today, that extra mile is the difference between a date invite via text and a date invite via phone call. If you want to build good rapport and chemistry with a woman, to key is making her feel comfortable being with you. It may be cliche, but roughly 90% of women surveyed by Ask agreed that the most chivalrous act a man can do is holding the door open for a woman. Life is too short to be playing senseless games with the opposite sex. In age of feminism, men are treading on thin ice to make sure they don't disrespect your independence and self-sufficiency.
And they are usually the ones that get pissed off if you don’t wipe their seat before they park their backsides, or get totally upset and act aloof if you don’t pull a chair back for them or hold the door open. As demanding as she seems, she would acknowledge your gesture, or at least know deep inside that you care (hopefully? If she doesn’t seem to care, then just cut down your chivalrous moves.