While we might all attribute things like feeling sad and crying a lot to depression, the mental illness can actually take a much more serious toll on those who live with it.
If you notice any of these signs early in the dating process, you may want to consider dating someone else unless you have a lot of patience or you happen to struggle with a bit of depression yourself; otherwise, you’re signing on for future frustration.
Note that there’s nothing wrong with someone who’s depressed, but meeting them in this stage is simply not a healthy way for you to start a relationship.
When he falls into a slump, you want to believe that you have the magic to pull him out of it and make him happy.
Yet anyone who has been in a relationship with someone who’s depressed knows how no hero exists who’s more powerful than depression.
Gary Brown, a licensed marriage and family therapist, tells Elite Daily. Brown also explains that the typical symptoms of depression — “the person feels numb, [they're] withdrawn, their sex drive (their libido) is significantly reduced, they're not feeling great self-esteem, lack of sleep, fatigue” — can greatly impact a person's ability to find the strength to date at all.“Typically, when somebody's deeply depressed, they tend not to date that much, unless they're looking for kind of like a fix, because they're usually socially withdrawn,” says Dr. Clarissa Silva, behavioral scientist and author of relationship blog, YOU'RE JUST A DUMBASS, also explains to Elite Daily that even when a depressed person is able to function, the "mental preparation" required for dating may be too much sometimes: You must keep in mind that sometimes they will alter plans unexpectedly simply because they just don't feel like they can do it that day.
They have intentions of meeting with you, but want to present their best selves, as we all do.This mental disorder can seep into any relationship and smear sadness and hopelessness everywhere.I’m here to tell you what to do if this kind of juggernaut strikes your relationship.Though dating is definitely not impossible to do, Dr.No matter how psychologically healthy – heck, perfect – you want to believe you are, there’s a little part of you that wants to be your partner’s hero in a relationship.In other words, if your boyfriend is depressed, you may be patient for a while but then get to a point where you think, ‘Okay, now it’s time to get over it and pull it together.’ It’s true that there are things a person can do to remain functional when they feel depressed, but it’s often impossible for a depressed person to simply suck it up and feel happy.