Why do women with so much to offer torture themselves with men who will not give back?
When you think things are going right you're filled with joy, and it's not from the experience itself. We don't think about relationships as something to plan and analyze, and we don't believe a relationship means anything about us as people.
All those positive feelings are actually a very obvious feeling in disguise: tremendous (but temporary) relief. "The chase" is typically a woman withholding parts of herself from the guy – as if somehow being inauthentic will lead to a good relationship. Instead, men pay attention to one thing: Does this feel good right now?
MC: Does the "thrill of the chase" apply to women the same way it does to men? If he feels good in the moments he's with you, he's going to want to be around you more.
If being around you doesn't feel good, he's going to want to be around you less.
The thrill of chase—we've all been there at one point.
He's intoxicating, infuriating, and more than anything seems impossible to get. You pursue him, forgetting how calm, cool, and collected you normally are: You're driving yourself crazy.So it doesn’t matter how tall, muscular and good looking a person is on the outside, if the soul is ugly he is ugly, period. I’m talking about a long, deep soul searching gaze into the eyes. He seemed cool and polite at first, but when I looked him straight in the eyes I got an icy chill instantly. The eyes will tell you if the person is shifty, mean, crazy, or maybe just a little troubled but yet a good person at heart.Do you know how you can tell what the true essence of a person is? When you open up and allow your intuition to talk to you, it will tell you all that you need to know about what’s going on with the person beyond the good looks and bright white smile. If he can’t even look you straight in the eye at all, that’s a problem.For an extrovert that would be the definition of hell.Besides being able to provide you with a lot of free advice, the fact that I don’t enjoy being surrounded by hordes of people who kill me with their ridiculous small talk helped me to attracted amazing women.I know that it sound counterintuitive, but I personally regard my introversion when it comes to meeting and dating beautiful women.