when something happens that only he would find funny … This get to a better place emotionally and mentally.
If you get back together because you miss him or feel like you can’t live without him or you don’t want to be alone, then you are setting yourself up to circle back to exactly where you are right now, in relationship no-man’s-land.
Missing someone doesn’t mean you’re supposed to be with that person.
When done wrong, you just end up wasting even more of your precious time pining away for someone who isn’t meant for you.
So let’s get down to the nitty-gritty and talk about everything you need to know about the no contact rule.
You will hopefully be able to see where and why things went wrong and will be able to know if it’s salvageable.
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It takes time to peel back those layers, get to the core of that pain, and heal. If he’s the right guy for you he’ll be back, and if he’s not, then you’ll find someone who is.
The no contact rule is for you; remember that first and foremost. I know that this can feel impossible, especially if you’re fresh out of a relationship. In the meantime, you need to learn to stand on your own two feet without him there to support you, and it can be done.
I remember that feeling all too well, the feeling you physically won’t be able to exist without him in your life. Not only that, breaking through that feeling of “I won’t be able to survive without him” and then discovering that you can will make you realize how strong you are, and as a result, will help build your self-esteem and give you that amazing “I can get through anything” feeling.
Another reason this rule is so important is because if a relationship didn’t work, then it won’t begin to work unless something significant changes, and change takes time.
This is what causes people to waste months, years, or decades of their lives, with nothing but feelings of hopelessness and despair to show for it. If you spend your period of no contact working on yourself and building up your self-esteem, if you are able to really realize that you can live without him and you can find happiness in your life, then yes, there is a good chance he will want you back. They are also drawn to a woman who wants them, not one who needs them.