The reason why being to nice a woman often leads to rejection is that it creates feelings of friendly affection, rather than sexual attraction.
Most guys don’t even know why a woman will behave in a challenging or cold way during a conversation, especially after everything seemed to be going so well between them. Women have a particular “girl code” that they run by and have many tests that they put guys through, but most guys just don’t know about it.
When a woman suddenly seems to lose interest, he doesn’t know what to say or do and ends up saying and doing all the wrong things, which turn her off and ruin the dynamic between them. One thing that I want to point out here is that there is nothing wrong with being nice to a woman.
So, why does being too nice to a woman often lead to rejection?
Well, this is a confusing one for a lot of guys to understand because you will often hear women saying that they “like” nice guys.
she is smiling, enjoying the attention, enjoying the compliments and not telling him to go away), he will want to continue behaving in that way because it makes him feel good.
It feels good that the woman he likes is being nice to him, smiling and showing interest in talking to him.
Those friendly feelings are not what cause a woman to have sex with you right now or begin a sexual relationship.
If you want a woman to want to have sex with you or begin a sexual relationship with her, you’ve got to say and do the things that will make her feel sexually attracted to you.
So, it remains a mystery to most guys as they go through life.
For most guys, all they hear women saying is Yet, that’s not it at all.
Without feelings of sexual attraction, she feels no need to be anything other than a friend or a stranger to you.