Here are 10 warning signs you shouldn’t date him – even if he is super cute and charming. Even if it hasn't been directed towards you yet, it probably will be in the future.
If they are, you could be asking for a lot of trouble.Wouldn’t you rather avoid a messy or potentially abusive relationship if you could? Has he ever gotten so angry that he's actually scared you? If his anger is out of control, it's highly possible that a relationship could turn abusive.It’s far easier to avoid a conflict and do the slow fade, hoping she takes a hint, than it is to have that sit down, gut-wrenching, breakup conversation. From the women’s perspective, the breakup came out of nowhere, since nothing was wrong – yet I have no doubt it was the right thing to do. Why shouldn’t I help her find the guy who going to be her one and only?Similarly, I’ve offered to write a new dating profile for one woman who broke up with me. Breaking up is no reason to start hating, especially if you haven’t been wronged.Source: Shutter Stock If you recently met this guy, and he's already acting flakey... If you don't mind dating someone who can't commit to a plan and who bails on you at the last minute - go for it.
But if he can't even act stable when he first meets you, things are only going to go downhill from there.
Source: Shutter Stock If you guys have been hanging out and have a little something going on, but he refuses to let anyone else know - major warning sign. If he flirts with you privately, but acts like he doesn't know you around his friends, that's not okay.
He's either trying to hide something, or he's just being a jerk. Source: Shutter Stock If you guys aren't even dating yet and you've already caught him in more than a few lies, that's obviously a huge warning sign.
That’s inexcusable and a sure sign that he’s not too concerned about you.
When you really like someone, it’s easy to ignore any of the red flags that they might not be, well… Even when the flags are flying high, and everyone else can see it, we tend to ignore the bad things about our crushes.
And if he doesn't respond to texts or phone calls, that's a warning sign on it's own.