Here are the most common misconceptions that I want to clear up – We would love to hear other Filipinas’ stories so please feel free to share your experience below !Yes, there are perhaps some Filipinas who have this reason but not in most cases!Even though some world views claim that this is a respectable or virtuous thing to do (as some religious views do), most men will not respect that opinion, let alone share it; and the few that do will have to fight their natural tendencies to follow it.
Claiming that men have commitment problems implies that men have some kind of commitment obligation.
But there is no world view in which men are obligated to resist their desire for female variety and become monogomous.
How could he do that to someone he says he cares about unless he is actually lying about caring about me?
How could he keep doing that knowing how it affected every part of our life and was getting in the way of our supposed happy family?
I was already travelling on my own long before I met Jonathan (well, I’ve met Jonathan while travelling! Jonathan and I are both long-term travellers and us living and settling down in the UK couldn’t be further from our minds.
We both want to buy land to build our very own yoga resort in the Philippines.
How can I ever look back on any good memories and be anything but sad?
And how can I ever remember all the lies and be OK with them?
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Men only commit to women they have strong feelings for, and even then they are making a sacrifice.