Dirty talk is a very strong tool that can be used to reignite your love life.
Dajin Kim, a sophomore of the University of Texas at Austin, agrees: “I usually ask questions to make sure they know I'm interested in what they're saying!
Also, he's just rude if he leaves you hanging on a question, right?
Dirty talk is an essential part of any relationship if you want to keep the intimacy flame alive.
However, to avoid being misunderstood, it is important to use very graphic words so as to avoid ambiguity. You don’t have to use words that you are not comfortable with all in the name of talking dirty to your man.
“Playing a game like 20 questions is the perfect way to make sure he texts back,” says Shelby*, a senior at Iona College.
“It allows you to learn more about each other and heat things up a little bit, too.” If you hit a lull in the conversation, say something like, “Wanna play 20 questions? You’ll definitely lose track of how many you’ve asked, but asking things like, “What’s your favorite sex position? Sometimes, guys need you to make it extremely obvious that you’re interested in them. If it’s been a while and your guy hasn’t responded, text him again.What should your ultimate objective with texting be – what are you trying to accomplish?I used to be highly vehemently anti-text myself and pro-phone; “You can’t build a real connection with a girl over text, and you should never ask her out over text,” was my old mantra.And if they can't hold a full conversation using only meme, then they aren't worth my time.” Amen, sister!Matt Milich, a senior at the University of Rhode Island, says emojis get him texting back.“If you have to go to drastic measures the ‘send multiple texts’ tactic works,” Ashley says.