Some were tomboys growing up and take pride in being one of the guys.
Money is an integral part of a relationship, and a man will find it very hard to stay in a relationship where his paycheck is just a fraction of what his significant other makes.
The ability to provide for the woman makes a man feel relevant and important, which is why, unless if he is out to get her money, a man will find it very hard to relate with a wealthy woman romantically.
Having a nicer car, a nicer place and a more extravagant lifestyle than her man can certainly take a toll on his ego.
2 View All Next »I want to introduce you to someone. She’s geeky to her Joss-Whedon-loving core, a Whovian, Vertigo-reading, 3rd edition D&D (none of that 4th ed crap thank you very much) gamer with the con stories to prove it. While it’s true that many men will use it as a polite dodge to avoid saying “I’m not attracted to you”, when it comes up over and over again, it’s a sign that maybe there’s more to it.
Some women can deliberately set their sights on becoming better than every man around them, for them to become as successful as possible.
However, other women do not even know that they intimidate men because they see their success as a good thing, something that their men can find to be of great value and assistance in their relationship.
” And I do mean genuine; shy, geeky guys are perpetually concerned that people are secretly making fun of them.
If he doesn’t have the self-esteem or confidence to get past the power differential – and beauty looking for someone better.
Wide smiles that reach your eyes (the “Duchenne Smile”) and open, welcoming body language can make a shy or introverted guy feel more welcome.
Showing genuine interest or honest appreciation in his accomplishments or hobbies can also help him overcome feelings of “What could she possibly see in me?
After all, women are encouraged to be assertive, accomplished and independent; being told that they’re “intimidating” sounds like they’re being told to take all of that back and pretend to be something less than what they are. Are geek guys finding a woman’s accomplishments to be somehow threatening? Because “intimidating” is so subject to personal interpretation, I thought it was best to go to the source: geek guys.