Other times you really like someone and it doesn’t work out, and you’ve probably wondered if there was anything you could’ve done differently.
Dating Tips and Q&A with Yours Truly I wrote the first version of this article in 2012, and since then I’ve gotten hundreds of emails and comments asking about what to do in certain situations.Here are the most common questions and my answers to each.If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).1) Be Independent Some “experts” say you should act unavailable.If all goes well, you won’t have to do “the talk” of whether or not you’re a serious couple.
Watch for these milestones, and you’ll know if the casual dating phase is almost over.Likewise, if she’s got some clothes or 8,412 bottles of hair product in your shower, you’re in.The Big One: Your First Fight If you have a fight and you don’t break up, you’re basically saying this is something worth working on.If you have a question about moving from casual dating to a serious relationship that I didn’t answer, leave a comment below the article and I’ll get back to you within a couple days.Q: I’ve been dating this person for months, and when I ask if we’re a serious couple or not, the subject gets changed or I get ignored altogether. One, they’re interested but not good at communicating or are feeling pressured and don’t like it.If it’s “to get to know someone”, you’ll probably seem interview-ish. People like being around fun, low-pressure people with no expectations.