A lot of Japanese women want a guy that tells them several times a day how much he loves them.
Be aware: The e-fishing pond is more competitive than ever. Cheese like this gave personals a bad name.* Spelling counts. But when we see misspellings, we think, "How badly does this guy want to meet someone? Or hire someone: At an expert can tune up your profile or write it for you.
"Any guy who's complaining about being single, and who at this late date does not have an online profile as part of his diversified dating portfolio, should stop complaining," says Lynn Harris, a journalist who helps online daters perfect their profiles at Normally I don't recommend props, and normally I'd be suspicious of a show-off. What I won't respond to is a photo of a shirtless man -- even if you're on the beach; even if you have It's like freshman comp:* Show, don't tell.
Another problem is that many of the Japanese men seem to be afraid of their English ability and thus fail to approach a foreign woman.
Most foreign men on the other hand, have no issues approaching a Japanese woman in English – or even in broken Japanese.
Japanese men seem to expect certain things from a woman.
Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.
However, be warned: If you want to read about bragging stories of all those Western guys who get laid a hundred times per day, then you came to the wrong place. You certainly won’t find that here – and not from a foreign girl like me!
And at the same time there’s only a very tiny number of foreign (read: non-Asian) women with Japanese men next to them. Maybe that’s a secret we’ll never quite get, but there are many theories!
As a result, dating in Japan is usually quite easy for men.
At least getting one woman after another into your bed, is really easy, even if you’re quite ugly!
Make sure the photo is taken up close and in focus -- no sunglasses, no hats. One man I went out with had a profile shot of himself at the wheel of a sailboat: superhot.