What we should all be looking for is not a husband or wife, but a partner in crime. She found herself on a lone bike ride on the nearby trails, racing up the hill, when a moment of clarity washed over her.
She came to realize that she is a fast-paced, passionate, highly competitive and relentless person, and what she needs -- if anything -- is a person that she can race through life with.
But in general, the mid-to-late 20s shows a dating shift: We're closer to finding “the one,” and anyone we take seriously will, for lack of a better word, be taken seriously.
On top of that, if you’re not looking, who’s to say that you’ll notice this person when he or she does happen to walk into your life?”), but adult serious (“I've already met his siblings and we're having a nice dinner together on Saturday night.”). When we find ourselves in this serious adult relationship, confusion may exist when we have that dreaded DTR, or “define the relationship” talk with our significant other.Many times, this confusion doesn't stem from “what are we? ”True, the terms “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” are age-old and synonymous with a committed relationship.However, if you and your partner are too similar, it's no good, either; boredom is a reality.It is possible to find someone who lives in your reality, but perceives certain things a bit differently, enough to broaden your horizons and to expose you to other parts of a reality that you can adapt as your own.There is, of course, a difference between actively and passively looking for a life partner.