The short version of this is that women like men who play it cool and that men like women who make them feel good – interesting, masculine, sexy, trusted (which is the central premise of my book Why He Disappeared.)“Men who perceive women to be interested in them rated the women as more feminine and sexually attractive.They also showed more interest in having long-term relationships with the responsive women than with the nonresponsive women.”I’ve never understood the “women playing hard to get” thing. If you think he’s cute, funny, and fascinating, chances are he’s going to want to spend more time with you.
Or, women may see responsive men as eager to please, or even desperate,” Birnbaum said. Reciprocate when he kisses you at the end of the night.
Perhaps, the researchers noted, women may view a responsive man as vulnerable and less dominant.”So there you have it, guys. Men respond to women based on how we feel around you.
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As to why women are turned off by men who are interested?
“Women may think the men are trying too hard to win their affection and get them into bed.You can be thoughtful and chivalrous, but don’t kiss her ass. And there you have it, ladies: scientific proof of everything I’ve always suggested. Women are turned off by men who show their physical interest on a first date. Men respond to women who show their physical interest in them on a first date.Though he wasn’t staggering around drunk or slurring his words, she should have registered this as a warning that trouble might lie ahead.