"The horse in Leslie's dream is a symbol for what she secretly wants to do with him in real life," says Spurr, who is Leslie's life coach."She'd like him to lead her into a sexual experience." By getting her feelings for Jack out into the open via her dream, Leslie can now acknowledge them—which often is enough to take their power away.As he moves in for the kiss, you slowly open your eyes, only to discover that he's... You sit bolt upright, sweating, relieved, yet strangely aroused. Instead of writing off these reveries as a side effect of spicy Indian food, tune in to them.
Women often dream of sick or neglected horses when they're not taking care of themselves, Holloway says.
If you think this is the case with you, schedule some me-time.
"Jack—a married colleague I have a little crush on—walked in and sensed my panic.
He said, ' Don't worry, the horses are here for your pleasure.' He helped me mount a big stallion.
As Jack walked the horse around the yard, the saddle was stimulating me, and I started to say things like, ' This feels so good, don't stop.' I was completely embarrassed that I was saying sexual things, but Jack didn't seem to care."The expert analysis Whoa, Nellie!
Leslie is likely feeling guilty about her growing attraction to Jack.
A woman caught my eye, so I took my cappuccino and sat next to her.
As I sipped, the froth spilled over my lips—it was going everywhere.
Being nuzzled by one hints that you enjoy taking a sexually passive role."I'm in the airport waiting for my flight, and a man sits next to me and starts chatting," says Dina, 29, a writer.
"The next thing I know, he pulls me to him and we start making out. The funniest thing was that I never even saw the guy's face."The expert analysis This is a sex dream that's probably not about sex.
I've never had a lesbian encounter, but this felt fantastic."The expert analysis No subtlety here.