Manchmal ist der Zeitpunkt für eine langfristige Beziehung im Leben aber einfach (noch) nicht gekommen.Wir sind vielleicht zu beschäftigt mir anderen Dingen oder haben schlichtweg keine Zeit und Muße, uns auf eine feste Sache einzulassen.It's funny how, I might cave to a hard sell, I might really like a guy but I just can't make it work, so in the phone calls he can talk me into further talking, but after I get off the phone, uh, now real life intrudes, this just isn't going to work.
It's better to cut with a sharp knife than a dull one.Call back, but just once, say what needs to be said, but don't say it mean. Avoidance is the general tactic practiced by most people to handle situations that they are mentally, spiritually, or physically too impoverished to otherwise deal with in a more civilized fashion. Check out the other posts on what the "good guy" (aka, needy guy) comes across as. Trying to tell them what we think they WANT to hear. Why when you give the phone number, do you never hear from them, I dont get it, it doesnt make sense to me, they want to date you or go for a drink, you give them the number.They give you their phone number, and then avoid you. But it is less embarrassing/painful than refusing to give it to you straight. and they never call, dont know what to tell you, good luck, I know mine has been bad as far as getting calls back! You left a message that was rude or just plain unsexy2. After thinking about it for a few days she realized that she was just not into you.That's not my opinion though, that the opinion of my female friend that's reading over my shoulder! Usually I have to know the person from somewhere i see more often than a bar or something. I just left a message about how I am respectful to women, and not a player. I am very attracted to her, and it would be her loss not to call me back.
I hate being ignored more than being told something like "no you are ugly". Because it's simply hard for some people to say no face to face.
Then things got tangled and I realized I just don't have the time or inclination right now, and that's not fair to anyone.
I'm a practical person FIRST, and I've had to take a deep breath and call back and hurt someone's feelings as nicely as possible. I suppose there are times when I don't call back as quickly as I should, there's something BIG going on in my life or I'm in Mexico or the darn phone lines are just down, again.
Oder man weicht auf eine der zahlreichen Alternativen aus, die bei der Suche nach kurzfristigem Spaß helfen.
wellll, am a smile-r, I love having conversations I believe everyone has a little something to share and to learn, on free weekends I take a walk to the park or museum, I grew up in the country sides so nature is always I am a single, with no child, hardworking lady, never married but spent most of my time in college doing education. I am looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage.
Trotzdem ist dem ein oder anderen vielleicht ab und zu nach ein wenig Zärtlichkeit, Zuneigung oder einfach ein bisschen Aufmerksamkeit zumute.