I had a nasty inner ear infection that slowed me down for a two-month non-visiting time and I recently had a two week hospital stay for a leg infection. So the next time he went, I went with him, he gave the rundown on tips, ect. I'm 41 now.i'm 51, single, started about 10 years ago. I went to see one gal, every week for over a year (was like an affair) except I was paying her each time. Most places r surprised to see me and they always say I'm so young.
I am looking forward to at least two visits in the next two, or three, weeks. Hopefully there are decent health benefits with this mongering habit to keep me going and alive for 20-30 more fun years... the majority of the hostesses were attractive Korean girls and occasionally Chinese, at least in my area. The when I was just past 40 I started hitting them again. with a face like Lucy Lui and a body like Mamie Van Doren. I've always assumed that the typical age was around 30 . Min once a week and may be twice if I git some extra cash lying around. I bet you two would get along great in real life:).
Feel less judgemental, more accepting of lifestyle, personal needs, simply providing a service for a fee. What's disappointing to me is that nowadays it is hard to find a decent white girl doing this, although there are some that advertise, and there are no more massage parlors with white girls, which used to exist. The reason I started going was that the girl I was seeing would have me strip, she'd remove her top and let me play with/kiss/suck on her breasts/nipples, but she would do nothing but run her fingers thru my chest hair.
I worry also that very young and very pretty girls could be victims of forcible involvement and I really do not want to be enabling any kind of sex slavery. We used to have them in areas like Hollywood and Pomona Valley, but they were closed down about 20 years ago. After about 3-4 months of this and then going home and jacking off nightly I needed some other relief/release. I also started with massages because my back was giving me trouble, sciatic pain down my left leg.
My goal is to fuck at least one girl from every country in the world. I am so lucky to have a huge selection of parlors and providers.
That will keep me in the hobby for many more years. I know so many ladies now and they treat me as good as I treat them. Had one favorite said she was 28 but I saw her for years and she was always 28 so I am guessing she was late 40's but had hot bod, gave great massage and loved to fuck.
I think the average massage parlor girl is between 35-45I was 20 the first time I went to a parlor. Some of the girls were so so but a few were fabulous. Shortly after that and at present most of the Asian parlors I've stopped at are staffed by homely over aged Chinese women. Thing is, being pretth young in these girls eyes, they don't wanna fuck me. So even they understand guys my age shiuldnt be sleeping aaround like this lolol48. I'll go on a tear -5 or 6 in a month and then might take a break for month and months. I just read through the comments between bigsteve and hemilover. The things you called each other are hilarious, since you really don't know each other. Maybe you'd find love in each other's arms (hands). Wife has had health issues and our encounters are few and far in between.
At best I accept a hand job but rarely full service. Since I'm Hispanic myself I click with them real well. I gotta say to both of you that your kidding yourselves when you're arguing about caring for/ or not caring for these women, and how stylish you are as hobbyists. We are sex addicts and it's us that are gonna move on to some other strange. Please, don't think we are cool because we pay for sex. Was having some back problems, so started getting messages. As you said, it's not an inexpensive hobby, but it keeps the juices flowing, so I'll keep at it for a while longer.
just turned 40 have been at it for a little under 4 years.
I have to agree that I got into this because of a not getting any from my GF and decided that it was better to a great service without the god damn drama of a GF or wife not wanting to help me get weekly (or daily) release.
You aren't picking them up in a bar or at a Starbucks. I've been pleasantly surprised at how well I've been received doing it that way, and how good the service is.
I'm not saying I get laid more that way, but it does lighten things up.
Feel like older women will be less attractive to slavers so more likely to be involved simply as a life choice for acceptable income level, and don't go home at night smelling like a big mac! I knew of an but it was about 100 miles away, but it eventually was like a magnet pulling me there. Was lucky, traveled the world, some day I should figure out how many countries I've had successful mongering. Massages helped and specifically to the back of the thigh up close to my butt.