According to a study from Mc Gill University in Montreal, boys will battle just for the competition.
So when you throw in an alluring reward — that would be you — well, stand back.
He quickly surprised her with tickets to the theater and a bouquet of roses for the following Sunday.
"Men are hunters, and they want to discover for themselves what makes you tick," says Fisher.
"That curiosity drives up the levels of dopamine in his brain, a chemical that fuels the mad-love feeling." Kreidman adds: "When you reveal something that's truly weighty, he'll feel like he's earned your trust." What's in it for you?
How everybody wins: Maintaining your own life acts like claustrophobia kryptonite.
"When you show that you like him but your world doesn't revolve around him, it says you're confident and self-reliant — two very sexy traits to a guy," says Argov.
Absence creates anticipation and a feeling of "If I don't see her now, I'll die." When he calls, "let your voice mail pick up now and then," says Sherry Argov, author of .
"It shows him that you're worth the wait and effort.To really work the strategy, end dates and phone calls first, and cryptically mention your other plans with little or no elaboration."When Dom and I first started dating, we would have brunch every Sunday," says Georgia, 26.Just don't touch or share sexual innuendoes with other dudes.The idea is to pique his jealousy, not piss him off.To level the playing field, she avoided giving him her cell-phone number so he didn't have access to her anytime, anyplace. By taking your time calling him back, you become a catch, not a convenience.